Doonesbury is currently running a series on women in the milirary and being rather blunt about physical assault--not by an enemy combatant, but by male colleagues.
I was still in the Army, when women became an active participant in that occupation, brought on by the introducton of the all-volunteer Army. The draft had become unpopular during the Vietnam Follies. Because women were not allowed in combat units, other units received more than their fair share. I was assigned to an aviation unit, which performed non-combat missions. We had a bunch of girls, which ensured new leadership challenges for officers.
I do not recall any instances of rape or even sexual harassment of women. I am sure that things were going on behind the barn, so to speak, by was not aware or interested. No one complained.
That said, I do know one incident of...I would not call it harassment, but more like attempted fraternization. To my surprise, I was propositioned by a young, attractive private. One Saturday afternoon, I was on duty at the airfield and sitting at my desk with paperwork. This female soldier was cleaning the hallways. (There must be a cliche in that.) She had removed her uniform blouse and was wearing a tight white t-shirt. After a few pleasantries from the doorway of my office, she approached, plunked herself on my lap, and tried to kiss my lips. I am sure that I was surprised, but my reflex was to turn my head to avoid her kiss. I told t her hat this was not going to happen, so she left and continued with mopping. I did not report this “harassment”, bring the matter up with anyone, and we never spoke of this.
I can empathize with her brazenness. I was an officer, who earned more money than a private. I drove a Porsche, which sent a whole bunch of different signals to different folks. I will not comment on relative attractiveness, but she could have done worse. She could not have known that I was happily living with my future wife. For her, the risk of failure was worth a shot at success. After all, guys are known to be easy targets for female wiles.
Given strict laws in the United States about workplace sexual harassment (in California, a female receptionist can sue her employer, if she feels harassed by someone delivering a package to the company) and the progressive nature of the military, I am surprised that such behavior is tolerated. I was able to fend for myself, but young girls are less equipped to face the challenges of combat...with friends, not foes.
I knew it.
There had to be an explanation as to why I was bitten in Florida more often than my wife. It was a female conspiracy...
An article about mosquitoes in The New Yorker reveals scientific evidence for what Rudyard Kipling told the world years ago: “the female is the most vicious of the species”.
No, not my wife!
According to the article, only female mosquitoes bite humans. Males, the gentle sex, are vegetarians.(http://www.newyorker.com/talk/2011/08/08/110808ta_talk_mead).
If only I had been able to attract girls during my teen years as easily as I had attracted mosquitoes, I might have had more fun. Now, I do not want to attract either…other than my wife, who seems to have resigned herself to the fact that she is stuck with me.
Prior to writing novels, the author enjoyed a multifaceted career: from decorated combat aviator to advertising professional to global communications director of a major consumer brand. He has traveled the world and met sports, film and television stars, political leaders, and royalty. He graduated from Middlebury College, is married, lives in Germany, and has two grown children.